greet with pleasure as always, this week I'll share a thought that is fully linked to the issue of last week ... this time we will speak of the part that links us with forgiveness out.
So after forgive ourselves for the damage we could have done to do or say something hurtful ... you have to give us the task of repairing damage ... because the consequences of our actions are purely our responsibility and there is no repair work more than we do ...
Today I invite you to start caring and get your energy from the events and people .. because when someone takes personal is what you do and if he stayed with our energy footprint that hurts and that keeps you tied to energy ... drenandote ... to take action on the matter and to heal the wounds humility have been triggered as a result of your words ... or your actions.
Remember, nothing hurts from outside ... while you will not take you all your energy and caring staff ... skip ... p ut like knowing that the will of those around us is trained to the same .. And the odds today for today can be little chance that for now the children, by age and natural emotional processes personal take everything that comes from someone outside and above all an adult ... and many adults tend to catch and drain your energy with everything going on outside its scope, the scheme has been learned ... remember is cultural victimization ... most likely, have damages ... so to take care!
Now the next part which I propose is: FIGHTING this process something that will probably sounds strange and fairly new ... but I feel it is very wise to begin to live. ... and this is that from today must stop expecting the world that we ask for forgiveness .... like? If pride will surely claim but I assure you that this step would free them greatly, leaving the expectation that something outside heal us and make us feel better often leads to frustration and suffering, full of pain and false hopes that keep us hooked drained again .. and emotionally draining and leaving a process where we can do nothing .... it invites us to think!
On the other hand ... when we react to any situation ... how many times we do certain that we act justly ... or for what we believe ... or what we feel is right ... well then how can we think we know for sure the reasons had to do or say what to offend us ... that we could not avoid personal tomarnoslo ....
When others act differently than we expected, or different than that for us to be. .. not take it personal, and make our guesses on the subject ... and 100.000 there are ways to see a similar situation, you think you're going to hit upon? There are few chances of success ... do not desenergetices mulling stories .... Stop putting your attention on what others are doing and just worry to seal all your outflows, stop putting your attention on external events .... From now on forward ... devote yourself to see anything more comes out of you ... and what that generates in yourself and others ... and really exercises all your will to stop paying attention and importance in what comes out ... do not buy what is not is yours ... everyone lives their processes completely different from yours .. Thousands stories that precede each answer, each reaccciòn, for more you think know the people around you ... a little no it yourself many times you catch your own answers, your own questions, for your own actions, your own reactions ... of your own thoughts ... I think they are proud to ensure the reasons and intentions were to act as others act?
This week practice what sig.
reaction to each of you is born that will follow a thorough review of that genre in yourself and others ... and repair before target the sun.
Reflect on Damage you have caused and repair them ... make your pride aside, it is not easy, but it is best that you can give ... humility exalts you! and recover energy that enriches you!
you do not expect anyone apologize!
If you are a parent ... education and awareness to your children than they can hurt ... and if they react violently and out of control ... before forcing them to apologize ... say make them think that maybe you do not take it personal because you're close and aware of the moment that are going on ... or because you know you are short fuse ... but talk to him enough to result away from home ... responsabillizarse teach them to their actions and its consequences! You do not expect their forgiveness but Teach them by example to be responsive and responsible and their answers will make great and conscious!
The main purpose of this process is that we start taking care of our energy ... and also that we start to recover!
Remember that while our attention is in external processes exhausted ... live! !
With love
*** Marian
kokoro kokoro no
Heart to Heart